Posted by Healthy Bitch Daily on Aug 20, 2012
Moments that make your toes curl aren't just for the bedroom. In fact, discovering your passion might be the ticket to the happy life you've been seeking.
Well, get your mind out of the gutter, honey, because I'm talking about fervor of a different sort. The truth is that life is constantly dishing out an assortment of goodies that may or may not appeal to our affections. Whether it's on the job or face-first on a yoga a mat, a gal is entitled to discovering the things in life that light a fire in her heart.
But seriously, when was the last time you got excited about a hobby or an activity? Think about it for a sec. Was it the time you refinished an old piece of furniture you nabbed at a garage sale? How about that painting project you did with your kids? Were you the adult at the table who seemed a tad bit more interested than the little ones who were also participating?
No matter what it is, discovering your passion doesn't have to be a difficult task. In fact, it might just be one of the easiest "jobs" on your checklist. Here are a few steps for hooking up with your inner mojo:
1. Stop telling yourself you "don't have enough time" for hobbies.
Sure you do. Remember that indulging your passions will require putting yourself first sometimes. Yes, your family, friends and the latest episode of "What Not to Wear" are important, but so are you. Dying for a night alone so you can work on your poetry? Stop fantasizing about it, and do it, bitch.
2. Hold hands with your inner kiddo.
For some reason, so many ho-hum adults think being a grownup means they can't have any fun. Well, you now have permission to stick your tongue out at people or take your turn on the monkey bars. Guess what? It's OK to indulge your childlike curiosities and, in fact, they could trigger just the thing that's been missing in your life. Maybe you were the neighborhood's best pet sitter or you loved helping your mom bake when you were younger. So consider volunteering at a shelter or enrolling in a cooking class. Oh, and never, ever stop making funny faces. It's totally cathartic.
3. Hang up your all-or-nothing approach.
So, you think your vegan cupcakes are somethin' special, huh? Well, that doesn't mean you should quit your day job and open a bakery, sweetcheeks. Too many people think uncovering their passions means they have to cash in all of their chips without looking back. Instead, try to think of your passion as your ticket to a bit of escape time. Baking cupcakes might make you happy, but that doesn't mean it's what you want to do for a living. In fact, sharing your goodies with neighbors might be all the satisfaction you need.
Listen up: Uncovering your passion isn't rocket science. If you find yourself consistently talking someone's ear off about your venture into photography or garden of fresh herbs, then take note--these are the things that could lead to a new hobby or, in some cases, career change.
For me, my cue that I've hooked up with something special is that moment when I find myself completely lost in an activity. Whether it's knitting or rock climbing that gets your engine revved, chances are you'll find you're passionate about the things that cause time to pass without a thought.
That's the sign of a true love anyway, right?
What's your passion? We want to hear! Leave a note in the comments section below!
Caroline Shannon-Karasik, Contributing Writer
Caroline Shannon-Karasik is the founder of The G-Spot Revolution , a gluten-free, healthy living blog built upon the premise that there is not a one-size-fits-all prescription for total wellness. Whether you call it your personal health "spot", or ooo-la-la recipe, that serendipitous life balance is yours to define –– and The G-Spot was created to help you do just that. Standing behind her mission to share health information through her writing, Caroline is a freelance writer for several publications, including REDBOOK and Breathe magazines. Follow her on Twitter @TheGSpotRev or read more at www.carolineshannon.com.
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